Mary, I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm praying for you and your dad.
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MY DAD MIGHT DIE DUE TO THE 'NO BLOOD' DOCTRINE
by Mary ini don't have much time to post as i'm headed back to the hospital, but my father collapsed this morning and had to be rushed to the hospital.
in a nutshell: he needs a blood transfusion as his hemoglobin is dropping (bleeding internally), but thanks to this fucking cult, that's not an option...........he'll accept the fractions but those bastards from the blood liaison committee have already shown up to ensure he doesn't cave............... for those of you who still believe, i'm asking you to say a prayer for my dad........and if anyone from crooklyn is reading this: you better hope my father doesn't die due to your fucked up rules, .
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My nana passed away tonight.
by Es ini receieved an sms of my mum saying nan was slipping away i literally called as soon as i got the msg, and she had already passed away.
things were looking up for a bit, we were managing to get some water and food into her and she had accepted to have a tube put in her, they tried last night but it was unsuccessful.. when i saw her on saturday it was the most alert she was, sunday she had very laboured breathing and tonight when my mum go into the hosp, my nan was no responsive, it was like she just waited for my mum to come in and then she passed away.. im in shock, even tho i knew it was coming it was looking hopeful for a bit there.. thanks for your support.
es.
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I'm so sorry es.
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My nana is dying :(
by Es inhey all,.
i recently posted a topic on loosing it with my father, so some of you would know my nan isnt doing well.
they finally got rid of the infection on monday we were all relieved.
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Guest with Questions
Hi es: so sorry to hear about your nana. I was close to my oma. The last time I saw her was when I was 8 when we left for Canada. She passed away when I was 12 and I still miss her. Like bluebell, I still can get teary eyed when I think of her. Take care and hugs.
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Amazing Grace/how sweet the sound-some of my favourite gospel/worship music
by Guest with Questions inthis song has always been one of my favourites.
wintley phipps tells the history of the song.
very moving.. amazing grace: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dmf_24cqqt0&mode=related&search=.
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tula: haven't read your link yet. Is I'll Fly Away similar to this song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyCL6yIHOYI
Tyrone: thanks for that song. You've heard of Ivan Rebroff? My mother used to have one of his LP's. He had quite a range.
Elvis, He touched me: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vG-R47ibkKw&mode=related&search=
Ivan Rebroff, enjoy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b7Hip9aI1BE&mode=related&search=
mum: thanks for all the great songs: I really enjoy the Gaithers too.
Michael English (Gaithers) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xM29BFBfRbs
Ricky Skaggs, I'm ready to go: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aZo-vk6OAQU&mode=related&search=
Ricky Skaggs, Somebody's Praying: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oI_h_IRfRe8
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Amazing Grace/how sweet the sound-some of my favourite gospel/worship music
by Guest with Questions inthis song has always been one of my favourites.
wintley phipps tells the history of the song.
very moving.. amazing grace: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dmf_24cqqt0&mode=related&search=.
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primitive genius: found yours. Really enjoyed your selections.
Blessed by your name, Newsboys: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0T8V7KGaac&mode=related&search=
By the Tree, Beautiful One: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AsIoYmRuzxY
Mercy me, I can only Imagine: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S70gwFcSK9k
Kirk Franklin, Awesome God: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dgBNQWR4a-0
Casting Crowns, Praise you in the Storm: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uHdcyue0bSw
I especially liked the last one.
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Amazing Grace/how sweet the sound-some of my favourite gospel/worship music
by Guest with Questions inthis song has always been one of my favourites.
wintley phipps tells the history of the song.
very moving.. amazing grace: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dmf_24cqqt0&mode=related&search=.
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Thanks for all the great songs.
Sunspot: I especially liked Breathe and Awesome God.
Sad emo: really liked Come See and O my God. I have never heard of Leeland but I enjoyed them.
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Amazing Grace/how sweet the sound-some of my favourite gospel/worship music
by Guest with Questions inthis song has always been one of my favourites.
wintley phipps tells the history of the song.
very moving.. amazing grace: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dmf_24cqqt0&mode=related&search=.
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Guest with Questions
Listening to Donnie McClurkin while getting ready for church. I totally can relate to this song, especially this week. We make mistakes but we just get up again.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sYa5MY3MRXc&mode=related&search=
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Letter that my DFed wife received from her Pioneer Mother
by Hangin_on inwe have been dfed for almost 3.5yrs and have been trying to get back in for 2 yrs and we are getting the runaround.. anyway..... here is the letter my pregnant wife received from her elderess pioneer mother.. .
dear mary,.
i am writing to ask you please do not try to talk to me until you are reinstated.
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An added thought. If the reason for disfellowshipping and shunning is to keep the organization clean then I think they are doing a poor job. Actually if the org or church was only for those who were without sin then the kingdom halls and the churches would be empty.
If I'm adding fuel to the fire then I apologize. Hopefully were not adding more stress to your situation.
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Letter that my DFed wife received from her Pioneer Mother
by Hangin_on inwe have been dfed for almost 3.5yrs and have been trying to get back in for 2 yrs and we are getting the runaround.. anyway..... here is the letter my pregnant wife received from her elderess pioneer mother.. .
dear mary,.
i am writing to ask you please do not try to talk to me until you are reinstated.
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Guest with Questions
I'm so sorry to hear this. As everyone has already said, this must be really hard on your wife especially.
This brings up some bad memories for me when I was pregnant. I have never been a witness but because of my parents being witnesses the relationship was very strained. I remember when I was pregnant with my son my mother telling me about the end coming soon. This was supposed to be a joyful time for us as mother and daughter. I had complications after the birth but my mother still left a couple days later. My mother-in-law had to come and take care of me and the baby. When I was pregnant with my daughter my parents came to visit and left the day before she was born. They were living in Texas at the time.
sspo:Enjoy the watchtower and when you feel lonely and depressed, call Bethel and they will be there for you.
I can totally understand your feeling. The relationship with my mother is better now. When she is having problems she will call me. I'm the only one she has to confide in. She obviously can't talk to her "sisters" about her problems with her new elder husband whom everyone adores. So my question also is, why do you want to go back to an organization that treats you like this? Wouldn't it be better to focus on your own family without the stress of adding this toxic family relationship?
As a christian I don't believe that God approves of us ignoring and witholding love from family members. He gives us choices to believe and worship Him. He doesn't force us, Jesus never forced us, so we shouldn't force anyone. Do you think that if someone willfully does something wrong that this tactic of shunning would straighten them out anyway? If someone is remorseful for something they did they only need to go to God for forgiveness. The GB, like the Pope, aren't mediators between God and us.
Maybe it's best to back off from trying to have any relationship and try to keep things calm for your wife at least till the baby comes.
dobbie: I'm so sorry that this is happening to you, to stay away from your own grandchildren.
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I walked off the job today....
by Terry incan't explain this one.. right in the middle of my shift i became disassociative.. my brain locked and i threw my hands up and kept repeating, "i can't do this!
i can't take this!
right out the front door of the bookstore.. i wasn't angry.
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Guest with Questions
Hi Terry, sorry to hear you're going through a difficult time. Sounds like burn-out to me. This happened to me many years ago. I was in a very stressful job and I remember one time falling over in the middle of the street from exhaustion. I took the day off. I'll never forget what my manager told me. "Take all the time you need as long as you get the job done". In time I realized that I had to quit and I gave them my notice.
Here's link to burn-out: http://www.psywww.com/mtsite/burnout.html
Hope it helps.